We have a marriage/counseling contract we're working on. It will include a weekly date night and also a weekly check in meeting. Plus we'll be doing the weekly MC. It sounds good so far, I just hope H will stick with it.
H: 43 W: 39 Married: 11 years Together: 18 years 1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation 2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce No kids EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over