So W stayed home last night when she usually goes to her place. I asked her to stay because I had to work late. Our communication is better but she still eats her words. She came to S11 football game this weekend and dropped me off at work. She also made dinner for the kids. We were like the family we were years ago. I am learning that although I want to help and so things for her she wants to do the same with me.
This morning I dropped her bag off at her place for her. I told her we didn't need to do this I would have dropped it off to her. She said that she didn't want to inconvence me. I told her that I think that we had become so conscience of not wanting to bother the other that we stopped asking each other to do things.
So we took the kids go kart racing this weekend and we both raced also. She said she had fun. I think the first part of my plan is working and she is reintegrating back into the family.
As far as our R she still will not talk about it. We do talk more and I talk with her about decisions about the kids. I hope the things I am doing is working .
