Looks like my posts over the past few days have been lost in the aether. Luckily, I haven't had much to report. Things remain largely unchanged between W and I.
The one thing that is new is that this weekend, after about two weeks of zero contact, I sent her a message. It was a picture of our cat that I have doing something silly, and just said "She says hi!". W responded and we got to chatting a bit, and I said we should grab a bite to eat and catch up a bit. W agreed and this Friday we are grabbing dinner at a sandwich shop. I'm going into it strictly from the standpoint of catching up, getting some face time.
I figured after we decided to do dinner I probably wouldn't hear from her again until Friday. But yesterday morning she sent me a message with a link to video that she thought I would like (and she was right, it was pretty neat). It made me smile a bit that she thought of me, even if it was something completely random.
Me: 28 W: 28 Together: 9.5 years Married: 4 years Bomb dropped and W moved out: 6/15/14