Good or bad sign: wife and I were at dinner, she opened up to me about the affair, admitting to a PA, but that it was non-sexual. She admitted to them kissing and that she spent nights in his bed, but still stands by her assertion that they never had sex. I know as part of healing from an affair the wayward spouse needs to be open to the betrayed, so I took it as a positive step. I told her that I appreciated her being more open with me about exactly what happened (I think I fall in the category of the needing-to-know-details crowd), but that I still assumed the worst to save myself more emotional pain in the case that she finally does admit to a sexual affair.
