Also we are both in our late 20s...married for almost 5 yrs and together for 7. Do I wait until she contacts me? Both our families r aware and my family did not say anything mean to her. Just said to get help. We r both seeing counselors, but she does not want to go to marriage counseling together. Our apt lease is up next month and there are things we need to address. Do I wait for her to bring them up?

Me: 29
W: 28
T: 7 years
M: 5 years
NO Kids

A/OM: suspected 6/8/14
A/OM: discovered 6/22/14
S: Aug. 23, 2014