A little more support for you. Must be something in late September...I felt awful the last two weeks and am just now coming out of it. My thread reflects same.
If you can become independent, and that suits you, do so.
If you D, then remarry, he can put you back on. And like others have said, with D (or legal S) filed, he shouldn't be able to drop you.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20
