Need Help before I blow a fuse.

[20&lost]

Need some advice. I have asked this before but I am really do not know how to handle my upcoming 20th anniversary next Wen. (10/1). Should I just get a card and say something like "I appreciate all you have done for me, the kids and the business over the last 20 years, Love (Me)"

I am really confused with the 20th normally being one to celebrate.

The way my W is now, no matter what I do it will be wrong.