We never really fought and I have resting happy face... haha. He said I was too nice, too complimentary and too easy to get along with...?!
Lisa,
I am dumbfounded. I wonder if your being "too nice, too complimentary and too easy to get along with" means he felt guilty finding fault with you over the years so he felt just leaving and being the bad guy would be easier? Gosh, I could mind read my way through that for years...
... but in the meantime, all you can do is BE you. His judgement or criticism of your niceness says WAY more about him than it does about you. Granted, it's still rejection and that's not easy to swallow.
I'm seriously shaking my head thinking of your H. What on earth is going on with him?
