Okay so she is coming over tonight, not to get more stuff but to discuss the finances (She already has her own place and I am keeping the house, and my paycheck is going into the joint acct which she has access to and part of her money). I will try and do my best, but just how in the heck to do you validate in this situation?

In ego boosting news, I saw two people over lunch today and they marveled at how I looked. I even just had someone ask me out for coffee. I accepted (for some reason), friendly chat and meeting new people I guess is why I did it.

Any advice on the finance conversation?

Me 34
W 30
T 13
M 8
BD 7/27/14
EA Confirmed 8/6/14
S 8/2/14
D Imminent

I quote the immortal words of Socrates who said "...I drank what?"