Yea, they give me a hard time, but, they love their UR. .
I can hold my own. All five feet of me. Some of that is Brooklyn, some of it was hard work. I lost me for a long, long time. But I'm baaaaacccckkk. LOL!
I dont stay angry either. Used to drive my mother and my xh crazy. It just never served me well. It was a waste of energy, I felt and still feel.
So, maybe that's not good. Who knows? It works for me and that's what matters.
I did have a period of anger over all of this. It came and went til I figured it out and worked through it.
I get the wishing you werent still early into this. Like you want to be done already and out the other side. Doesnt work that way. I know you know this.
The GAL was really hard for me. I wasnt as good at it as I should have been or still need to be.
I dont go to bars either. My friends all didnt want to catch the divorce cooties from me.
I did take some classes. I went places and struck up conversations with people when I could. That was a hard one for me at the time. Went to the movies with a friend or out to dinner. As I said, it can be as complicated or as simple as you want it to be. The idea is to just get out there.
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