She wants to be family and friends and a divorce.

[joli83]

I need help here folks. She responds favorably to friendliness and calm and at least initially to a very positive romantic gesture according to her. She then regularly withdraws when I'm assuming she realizes she was more than passingly firendly in her repsonse to something. We have talked seriously about how I dont want a divorce twice the first being a "very good conversation" according to her. The second was at a high stress time probably not the best time but I think happy(?) about that my love is no strings attached but still quite strong in her stance of not working on our marraige. When I withraw and try to make space emotionally for myself she is less likely to chat and I think it reminds her of our troubled dating times when we were kids. She does not deal well with people leaving. I don't know what to do and need advice folks.