BD and 6 months later PA confirmed (2)

[Georgiabelle]

Hi Bunches,

I'm not a vet and these are my thoughts and I will admit I haven't read your entire sitch.

1). I think it's perfectly fine to be pleasant and chat briefly with your w. Of course, if your PMA isn't great, you can skip a chat.

2) It sounds like your W recognizes and has appreciated your financial commitment during your m. I think it's fine for you to congratulate her on her new position that allows her to cover her expenses. Honestly, each of you being in a positive financial place is good for both of you regardless of whether you. Since your son has special needs, this can alleviate some financial pressure for you both. Yes, I know it's better with one set of household expenses, however it does sound like your w is realizing that it's important to be at to take are of yourself.

3) Bunches, again I haven't read your thread. However, when someone pays you a compliment , it's ALWAYS appropriate to acknowledge it. Do you want to reattract your h? You sound a bit down. I know this can be very difficult-I do. Factoring in a child with special needs can be even more challenging. However, it's okay to engage in some light, breezy chat with your w. If your wife looks nice, it's fine to say "that color looks good on you." Think of it the same way you would be talking to a friend or acquaintance. Heck, I stop people and say "I like your bag" or "you have such lovely hair." And I'm not hitting on them. Just making an observation.

Are you frustrated? You've been at this a while and it sounds like there are some positive interactions. Hang in there!!!