Once you let go with what you cannot control you will find yourself much happier. I know it's easier said than done but trust me majority of us giving you advice have been through similar struggles in the very beginning. The more you push for control the further you are pushing your spouse away.
Yes so she's calling lawyers. I did not want a D and had no clue if my ah was talking to lawyers at the time but I consulted with 3 different lawyers to protect myself, my boys and my assets. I'm not saying this is what she's doing
But what can you do about it? You CAN control your response. GAL do things for you that make YOU happy.
Be a strong confident man that a woman would want.
Would it be a 180 for you to stop trying to control every detail and. Just let go of what you can't control. Trust me I struggled with this. But once I started following the wonderful advice from the great people here I started seeing changes. Most importantly I started feeling so much better
