Seattle, I'm sorry about your learning about W's contacting lawyers. May I suggest that you stop snooping - it's only hurting yourself.

Make sure that you are protected, and see your own lawyer.

Detach, and stay strong. You have to trust that by GAL, things can end well for you whatever the outcome.

Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace