Originally Posted By: Seattle
I just found out she called two different lawyers yesterday. Is she trying to get more information and figure out which one she wants to use? This is now beyond 'exploring' and 'learning her options' - she is actually figuring out which lawyer to use. This is not going to end well for me.


Once again, mindreading.

How did you find this out?

How do you know it's more than that? And what if it is? There's nothing you can do about it.

This is where your work is, Seattle, learning to control you.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss