Pilot, from an outsider looking in you are doing well with your sitch. Better than most I follow. What was your wifes family life like growing up. Not to throw God card or push it on you. Did they and do they still go to church. Just something to think about. Not to win your wife back strategy, but check out a Methodist church in your area some Sunday. Take the boys! It might be a nice experience for you. I have been a so so church member since kids were born. Wife was really the drive behind it. Anyway it certainly has been a big help for me in dealing with this mess. I don't ever want you to think I am pushing this on you , just something that is helping me out
Thanks igit,
My W was actually really big into church when she was growing up. Even though she is not Baptist, she spent most of her time at a Baptist Church. She even worked for Christian Life camp for a few summers when she was in high school. I grew up going to church but then I sort of quit, and would only hit the major holidays. Now I miss those as well. During our last few months in our old town, W would take the kids to a Presbyterian church...but I suspect it was just a way of getting out of the house. I also suspected it was where OM went to church.
I am glad you think my sitch is better than most...although I certainly do not feel it is! :P
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16