Originally Posted By: Ahoy
pilot -- I'm curious to know what your DB plan with your coach was, and why you would need to go back to LRT?


Basically my DB coach and I decided to make a more aggressive push than I had been prior. This meant being more openly flirty, and taking every positive and building on it with a bigger attempt at a positive.

However, since my W seems deep in a new fog, and is completely uninterested in any type of flirty behavior or even compliments, it seems prudent to back off and just let her be again. I will continue the PMA and all that jazz around her. However, I will not be asking her to any lunches or dinners, or family time events for a bit. I will just let her sort through whatever it is she is doing.

Thanks for the post Ahoy!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16