I am just so nervous that because we have cut out marriage counseling things are just going to slide further down hill. She is going to counseling on her own though.
I don't know that she is in a fog. I've just read so much on the Internet that maybe I have convinced myself that she is based off of her actions. She was/is acting like someone I don't even know. That was more in July/August than now. This desire for 'fun' and a 'spark' and her EA with this guy at work suggest she has feelings for him that she hasnt felt for me in a while.
Yes, I am trying to control the situation. I think that is one of my problems in general that I need to work on. However, let's keep some perspective here. This is my life and I would like to have some input into the outcome.
I agree with what you are saying. She needs to come back because she loves me and realizes it not because she is guilted into it.
