A lot of evidence for what?

You can have whatever feeling you have but that doesn't mean you react towards others based on what you're feeling IN THAT MOMENT.

You didn't answer the questions, what do you hope to accomplish by exposing to her parents (of all people)? What is your motive?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss