This is terrifying - I hope you understand

[labug]

Shakespear (e left off intentionally) how have you changed?

This: I insulted and ignored her for too long, building a wall. She tried to scream through the window, but I didn't pay attention.

When are you going to stop that?

-we don't need to know your W has unnecessary pounds to lose or that she's having an abdominoplasty. That you agreed to pay for-is this out of joint marital funds or do you have a separate personal account you're using for the surgery?

-we don't need to know that you rescued your W's resume or that she's office or word or w/e challenged.

-"She still leans on me for so much...it's going to be a shock when I am not continually available." Maybe yes, maybe no.

-now you've broken a trust of privacy and found out what you already knew.

This is about you changing you, to. the. core.

Can you do that?

When will you start?