I asked on another thread you commented on what your motive would be for exposing the affair?
You mind read a lot. 3/4 of what you wrote up there is stuff from your mind, not reality. I know this situation is tough and it is hard to believe that what we' go through and just how painful it is. But causing her more pain won't make your pain go away and it won't bring your W closer to you. Shame is a poor tool to use.
Do you want your W to come back because she loves you and wants to be with you or because she feels forced due to outside pressures?
What are you doing to improve you?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
