We're all stupid and annoying to someone, somewhere.
I think the reaction comes from being afraid of just that, we aren't as perfect as we think we should be (we each have to figure where that came from on our own) so we lash out at those who trigger that fear in us.
Usually those who trigger us share a trait that we don't like in ourselves. When we begin to recognize and accept our shortcomings we can accept the same in others.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss