Thanks RILEY.
1. I've always liked challenges. I know there's alot going on in her family (its big( with LOTS of drama))GF hates that part.
2.Not planning on seeking OW,for now. With 3 jobs, I ain't got time to get out. I never did socialize much...ever anyway. GF knows this.
3.I hope it says alot (to her) that I stay away as she asked.GF knows I am not a threat to her or her kids. GF defended me once already when neighbors said I was driving by her house all crazy.She knew I was @ work.
4. GFs stuff in the box is outta my sight so it don't remind me.
5. Coming here really helps. The few friends I have are 75 miles away.They all work 1st shift, I'm on 2nd. kinda hard having a normal life.
6.I write down all texts and any phone conversation for coaching purposes. LAURIE said it helps .
7. I pretty much don't do anything diff now then before. I'm a homebody. GF said she is one also.

So patience it is.I have to drive on. GF knows I have everything to offer her. She has never had that before.FAITH, LOVE AND HOPE.


ludicrous speed so we can go plaid.
Some people have one of those days, I have one of those lives.