Saturday afernoon. I was clearing up things in the kitchen after eating and she comes in - back from the gym. Small talk began - what you doing today etc. I said I had some things to do in town. She says to me shall we go in together! I was so stunned that i had to clarify - "you mean the two of us - together???? She has previously gone out of her way to avoid the two of us doing things together. Then i think she realised what she'd said and quickly stated "it's not a date!"...
So off we go, and then from that point on it's back to the ice queen again. Strained conversation, walking ahead of me - you know the feeing i'm sure - i had to really work hard to get her to talk. Made her smile and even laugh once or twice, such an effort though. Why invite me in the first place? - Perhaps i just should have gone on my own.
Ages: Me 58 Wife 50 Together: 27 years M25 D24 D21 Bomb Droppped 21 June 2014