still waiting

[Ahoy]

Hi rppfl! He doesn't want to keep me on his insurance, even though we are still married, so I have no room to argue unless I go the begging, pleading route, which I can't do.

Bottom line: he doesn't care.

It's sad, but at the same time, being dependent on him and the threat of him pulling my insurance later in the year if we D makes me anxious. So it's worth the expense for my peace of mind, and to get some financial distance from him.

Honesty, if he does drop me, I don't see why I should stay married to him. That's a pretty big issue for me (since I have brain tumors). Maybe I would consider a relationship still, but without the legal ties. (He is really irresponsible with money, and if he's not there to see me through in sickness and in health, then what's the point?)