The gift of time . . .

[Ahoy]

I hear you, Elsa! I a going through the same thing, and it's torture. I'm afraid to ask the clarifying questions, but dying to know the answers. The trick is to shift your focus away from him, to just get on with your life for the time being and enjoy the moment (easier said than done, I know).

Even though it might be against DB principles, I hope that sharing your needs with him gave you some relief.