[sjallda]

I'm sorry to hear your sitch, I know how hard this is for you. What you said about your peeps reaching out to your h made me remember what my well meaning family said to my first (not present ) h against my wishes.
My grandma told my first h that there was an electric chair with his name on it, (he was physically abusing me), and that they had the means to see that it happened if he touched me again.
Funny now, but at the time it caused problems.

Hang in there