raliced,

Thanks for the input and alternative perspective. I know there could be a million reasons why she keeps me away. And while some may be more likely than others, it really does me no good to speculate. I do think it is interesting what you found when reading many different stories about it being a not too uncommon event. Again, thank you so much for taking the time to add your thoughts!!! smile

rppfl,

Thank you as well for posting. I did not pass my son off without him having done any homework. He just did not do all of it. In kindergarden a lot of what he has to do deal with using colors. I do not happen to have any crayons or markers at my place...all those things went with my W. So anything which was color related, got sent with him to her place to get finished. I just chose to ignore her text because of the perceived 'tone'. Maybe I was wrong in her tone...who knows. It just came across as a lecture. I have not, and do not even intend to use my kids in any negative way during this whole D process. My kids always come first. In this case, I just did not have the coloring stuff, as my W has always been the artistic one.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16