I posted to you back on Friday and it got chopped by some small, invincible men/women out there. Grrr.
Originally Posted By: GGG
Seriously, he is trying to find any little thing to demonstrate how leaving me is the right decision...anything he can point to to say "See? She's hopeless."
A lot of the times the MLCers find it incredibly hard to climb down from that mindset which means that they're clearly in the "wrong" about the source of their own unhappiness. It is just easier to assign blame on the LBS rather than confronting your own uhappiness and figuring out your chit.
Clearly GUBU isn't ready yet. It seems that this internal processing occurs when they're pretty much out of the tunnel. That's what happened to me here and I'm always forever grateful to MWD and this site for aiding me in this process.
Gosh, it must be hard on you and other LBS to see glimmers of the old spouse within the MLCer appear so sporadically. It is hard for all parties involved...the LBS and the MLCer.
