Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

[hotwheelsaust]

Hey Jay,
Been reading your sitch and yes this is very hard. My sitch is very, very similar and lucky for me I had some good support from the vets - especially Wonka.
My W walked out from me nearly two years ago and had an affair with another woman. In hindsight, I can see the affair starting in the three months leading up to the walk away.
Like almost everyone on this site, it was all my fault, the same speech and feeling the same hopelessness about my sitch and myself.
I am here to tell you, as others have, do the 180's, work on you and be the best person you can be. It is worth it down the track. You will become a better and more enjoyable person to be with. You will wish you did this many years ago.
I wish you the best of luck and even an Act of God. But it is like a drug addict looking for the next "fix".
The hard thing down the track is improving ourselves, while the W or H, hasn't worked on themselves.
You are doing great Jay, keep it up.