These are IND bills of my H, one is IRS tax issues that H had long before we were married and continues to not take seriously and continues to avoid paying when he gets new tax years he owes on. I have never filed taxes with him always separate. We had a checking acct together once and when money was taken from it for a bill H owed on, I separated my accts and have keep it that way. The Mtg is in my name only (due to H IRS issues), purchased before we were married.
H wanted us to have joint accts etc and has gotten upset when I refused.

All important home bills are in my name.

It's one less thing we had to argue about by having separate accts, but also H complains about saying I never really wanted things to be together.

I do see he is trying this time, really trying especially since H does not really want to ask me for my help, which is OK with me, more then OK.

Yes, I would be a FOOL to tell him about my savings now!

Side note: H must no longer have his PO BOX, his mail is starting to arrive back at the house.

Last edited by 2BHappy; 09/22/14 10:26 PM.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015)
H 51 (ring off 7/2013)
M 2007 T 1996
S 14
July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son
Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW