newbie need help needs help part 4

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Well a lot can happen in 4 days! LOL! So update hear< Friday night w has sleepover planned for D12 and friends. her plan take girls and S6's to fair. At 530 she asked me if I could take she was tired! No problem> get home from fair at 9pm NO W home! D12 is upset and tries texting /calling W but no answer. Anyway D12 and her friends pile into D12 room and decide D12 needs to sleep in W room not enough room in D12room. W gets home at 2am and is startled and screams! NICE!
Sat am I let W know since D12 is going out of town for night with friend I would take boys to pumpkin patch and be home at 5 to cookout with boys so she could get home to herself.
W > Text me since I screwed up her plans I don't want to be here while you continue to act like perfect dad, perfect husband, ignoring the fact that we are in divorce process, you continue to involve yourself, not giving me space with the kids. please have yours and boys laundry done.
I was home when I got text and went in and read it in front of her. I asked her how she thought I should be behaving, I am not changing my behavior and sorry that she took offense to it. I then took off with boys for the day. we had a good time and went to a party after pumpkin patch got home at 9. W rolled in around 1am <I guess she was tired>
Sunday- took boys to church got home and W asked me to drive to pick up D12 3hrs away. She got up sick and wanted to come home early> Good old Dad made the drive got home at 630. D12 was upset in car she hadn't spent any time with Mom. We got home and W did homework with D12. W was screaming at D12 to pay attention and D12 started crying! I just got boys a bath and put them in bed and let W deal with D12 herself.
Today woke up and twins were both sick with fevers! had to stay home and take care of. W texted me D12 should be happy that she did her homework with her! LOL MOM. Anyway pretty frustrating!
I am not sure I can subject kids to this much longer! With D process going I may ask W to get a place closer to work and just go totally dark> No talking , no texting, let me know when you want to see kids and I will make arrangements to not be hear! Let her deal with her issues herself and leaver me and kids out of it!
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