Have I any hope.... (Part 3)

[Ahoy]

Hey 25 -- this isn't my thread -- it's bashy's.

As for me, I have brain tumors and my dad has possibly lymphoma, so I'm not going to waste my and my *real* family's precious time while my husband is "finding himself" (likely between the legs of another woman). I did invite him to join in, if he feels like it, but I have to GAL, and take care of myself, and that's what I'm doing. My daughter is a teenager, and I'm just addressing the questions she's asking me because she's old enough, and because I have to clarify what crazy H says (he moved out nearly two months ago, so no one is living under any illusions here).

I'm glad for you that you've restored your marriage. If my H wants to come back, I am keeping the path clear by not dating other people, by being positive, and inviting him to family holidays, but not pressuring him by forcing him to include me in his. I think that's pretty darn good, and if not, well heck, let's say it's the best I can do with a head full of brain tumors!