This money has been put aside for an 911 fund and to help with my sons college in 4 years. This is also the money I will need to help support my son and I on my own if my H decides to leave.
Back in 09 I was struggling to pull myself out of debt (debt that my H help put me in) and once I was out of debt I focused on saving more and really making a budget, part of my past debts were that I was not making enough money and 911 situations came up and my H had a couple of lay offs (not his fault) but I had the debts in my name.
My H and I are different with how we handle money and other situations, my H hopes it will work itself out or go away, and I like to tackle things head on... But at I point I was spending more then I should have...
And my H trying to take care of money issues now is only because of the threats of garnishment,,,otherwise not sure if he would continue to ignore it...so in the past this is where I would have tried to step in and get it all worked out by helping to pay or making arrangements or taking on more of the bills until H was able to resolve it...this has happened before...
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
