Please do not share w/him that you have an account safely tucked away. You may very well need that nest egg down the road. Protect yourself at all costs. Keep an eye on the accounts and follow up to ensure that the bills are paid, especially if you have a mortgage. Some of these nuts tell you that they've paid the bills and take the money and run off spending carelessly and later on down the road, you begin getting late notices.
Do not trust him when it comes to money. I know you want to, but you can't when he's in crisis. He's not fully baked and even then, I would be careful for another year or so.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
