Well update time I guess. W still has a bunch of stuff at the house, all the big stuff is gone now though. We got the cell phones and insurance split up, the tax return is done and filed for last year, and we are splitting up the finances later this week and she will have a first draft of the divorce decree to me this week.
I just can't believe how fast this is moving along.
Saturday was a bad day, that is when I had to spend time with her and then see her go again. I was an emotional wreck until I started writing her a letter that I want to give her (maybe) when the divorce decree is signed. After that I felt a lot better.
Positive things, I am really looking forward to decorating the house as I see fit. A lot of what is left I will keep because I like it. A lot of my free time this weekend was going on pintrest to look for ideas on the house and I got some really good ones. I am actually looking forward to painting, moving stuff around, and working on the house decorations (she did most of it). I am looking forward to gardening (she always did it), and building furniture.
Sad part is a lot of the above I used to do it all, I guess that is the point of GAL, find yourself again and become a better person. I still miss her terribly, I have a friend whose wife has been a great help. Whenever I want to text my W I write my friend's wife instead so at least I know someone is reading it.
Me 34 W 30 T 13 M 8 BD 7/27/14 EA Confirmed 8/6/14 S 8/2/14 D Imminent
I quote the immortal words of Socrates who said "...I drank what?"
