Hi jpLove, For what it's worth I worked with Jack too. I feel like while much of what Jack and I worked on was helpful and fits with the larger DB framework, DB seems like a more comprehensive approach, and I've seen bigger changes since I started focusing more on myself, my GAL, and my PMA. That was something he recommended too, but it seemed almost a secondary focus, (maybe that's how I took it, because at the time that's what I wanted) where here on the boards and in the books there is a much bigger focus on yourself.
Sorry you find yourself here and sending warm thoughts your way.
Me:33 W:32 T 12yrs M 3yrs House, No kids 6/16/14 BD 1+yr PA disclosed 9/1/14 Requested divorce, in house S