Thanks all.

Yes, i was expecting everyone to magically know I was talking about responding to his invite re: holiday this Friday. :-/

Ok. I will come home and smile and say, " it will be nice to share the holiday with D"? "Thank you, i have always really liked those services and I'm glad I'll get to be a part of it this year"? Simply, "thank you, yes I would like to join you"??

Gotta think on HOW I will actually accept the invite.

Maybell, I recall those nuggets of wisdom from you! Yes, I must be willing to take a risk at some point. He is definitely still keeping a close fence around himself (he is attending a wedding this weekend... I have not asked if he is going alone or not. I don't want to know, right??), and has not pursued the "date" he initiated recently. So, at best he is still testing, and at worst he is just being polite/feeling guilty.

Another friend and his son and daughters may also be there so it will be another opportunity to show myself off. Up a dress size these days, but bought something new that I will at least feel good in.

In other news, this calf injury has halted my non-existent exercise but maybe some PT will help me get a jump start.


Me 38 H 40
D 3
T 8 M 6
BD 10/2013