Well... First MC session went about as well as could be expected. It's pretty clear how/why W went from her post-vacation mindset of "We're not there yet but we're on the right track" to "I'm done and don't think I'll ever be 'in love' with you again". She has a TON of resentment and anger (I dare say rage) and hostility about the past...the first 6 years or so of our marriage during which she felt like she was working and working to have a good relationship while feeling like I was doing nothing.

Not sure if MC is going to fix this, but at least she's willing to go to session #2. Unfortunately that's until week after next.

H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14