Is your 18 yr old finished with hs? If so, is she in college? How does she sen with the news? The boyfriend's parents may have a fantasy version of becoming grandparents and a romanticized view of this. I did see much of that when I was pregnant with my own kids. The reason I ask is that I saw this entire thing with my niece play out on social media. I figured it out long before she told her parents. The forums people use to air their stuff. I do it here although I'm pretty gosh darn private IRL.
I know it's not really solace, your D did come to you. Clearly your W is still in a difficult place because she said she felt like people are blaming her. This issue is heavily impacting the life of your D and your W needs to try to at least recognize that.
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 09/22/1407:11 PM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer