Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

See Sandi she already knows this is what I would want if she moved back in. So it is up to her if she could cut the ties with him. I know I can only control myself and the pain I go through. So I couldn't live with her being in contact with the OM. Is she willing to do that, I don't know. But how you approach her with that. Is another concern. If she were to go that route, which I don't think she is ready to do yet or maybe at all. It's a hard line between keeping the road paved easy and not controlling you spouse and your own feelings. Not being a dormat. If she wanted to come back at all.