We have all, in one way or another, been in your spot dgb. Read Divorce Busting or Divorce Remedy, and realize that you are not alone. Post often. We will get to you.

Breathe!

Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20