So, my H has some bills he is trying to pay and working a lot of over time and now talking about a 2nd job to take care of them.
I hinted that I could help a lil with more of the bills if that would help him out...but as soon as I said it like NO why should I, he still don't know if he wants to be M to me!
I had hinted last year that I had a lil money saved to help out, H always declines my offer of helping him with money.
We have had some issues in the past around money.
BUT I have enough to help him out of a couple of his situations, which I tried to have him avoid in the 1st place...now he is being threaten with wage garnishments.
I feel like I'm hiding my savings account balance. We have always split the bills 50/50 and had our separate accts etc.
I think if we were in a better place I would tell him about my savings account.
On the other hand I feel like I have to have my own safety net, before BD and especially now!!!
What do you guys think?
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
