Need Help before I blow a fuse.

[20&lost]

bdub, I am trying to figure out what tactics. I know when I push she runs. She basically says she loves me but is not in love with me and that she is willing to keep the R like it is and just live with it. She is totally emotionally disconnected and there is nothing I do do that is right. She never gives a compliment but is real fast telling what I did wrong. She keeps arm length from me. She has said that I have been a good father and a good person and that she knows the family can count on me but that she just "doesn't have feeling in her where she can let her hair down around me" so to speak. I tried everything I knew to do over the last 10 months which was exactly opposite of DB. I have my 20th anniversary coming up a week from this Wen.