Wife having emotional affair part 2

[3kids]

Well, not finished with the 5 love languages book just yet but very very good book.

Had an interesting conversation with the wife last night. You all have said to keep the road paved home smooth. Well I guess I did that maybe last night. The wife called and was talking about her living situation and money and work. So I offered like 25years said to live at my place. She asked about all the bills and I said I had them covered(like a real husband would if his wife was going to school). She mentioned how she loved my place(positive). We where talking about my company not giving me a raise in the last couple of years or insurance. In which I validated by saying I am working with them on both and if not I would have to find a different job that would support our family. Validated her feelings and even told her that I would put her first(something that I have never done with all my heart). In which I should have done a long time ago! What's the saying "if moma isn't happy no ones happy". So maybe there is a positive. I don't know about her and OM. But she brought it all up so who knows. Sticking to my boundaries.

Patience patience and patience work on me and keep some hope.