still holding on - 4

[u-turn]

I've been working on myself, always busy, and not being overly talkative with W. She is seeing this - we did spend some time together with kids this weekend. This morning she e-mailed me asking me to communicate more, don't be afraid, stop worrying so much, just be you. She is asking me about my feelings. She said she wants to move forward and work on us.

She seems to have been heading in this direction, but I don't know what to do now. I know to play it cool, but do I bring up my concerns? do I ask about her status with OM? I don't know their status right now.

Thanks for everyone's input - a little lost.