Finished my motorcycle course this weekend with a passing grade. Now I can take the 14 question test at the DMV to get the motorcycle endorsement put on my license. This has been something I've wanted and planned for a long time but never took steps to do it, which I know frustrated H on many levels (lack of initiative, a common interest we could have done spending time together, and so on).
He gave me a fist bump and a friendly hug when I told him I passed.
He also came home with some junk from a tag sale last evening. H is somewhat of a hoarder; not so bad the house is over-flowing with junk, but he definitely has multiples of things. It's hard to live in the same place with him because it gets very cluttered with stuff. This was a source of tension with us, because when he'd buy one guitar (snow blower, radio, vacuum cleaner) he'd buy 10 more (or get them for free and fix them up but they'd sit around after.....).
I just listened and smiled as he explained about his finds and didn't say boo.
BF:40 M:33 SD: 12 T: 8, never married, no kids together BD: 8/4, "I'm just done", "...too tired and burnt to try". PA confirmed 8/5 "It happened, but it's been over for almost a year".
