I dunno guys, everything feels really good right now but I know we still have issues to work out. I hope I'm not getting set up for disaster, but I'm really optimistic right now.
It feels good b/c of the emotional high and your hopes are soaring. You are setting yourself up for disappointment.
Rev, do you know how you grade what kind of day it is? Just by reading your posts, I can tell you base a good or bad day according to your W's actions. Try to break yourself from allowing her to make or break your day. It takes real effort in not focusing on her and letting it choose what type of day you have. That should be your decision and power.....not another person's. When you detach successfully, you will be the one who determines what kind of day to make it. If your emotions are the determining factor, you will need to learn how to control your emotions, instead of the emotions being in control. Make sense?
So how have you been since the last post?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
