thank you bdub. She is still in the house and really has never said anything about separation or D. She just will not emotionally engage with me. We still sleep in the same bed but there has been little or no physical contact for almost 11 months now. Sometimes she looks at me and I get the feeling it is "like finger nails on a chalk board" to her.
W-44,M-57 Married 20 D-17,S-13 W and I own our own business and work together.
