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I talked to friends about my H's affair because I NEEDED to, but I tried to respect his space and didn't take it to his friends unless I had an outstanding reason. Which only happened once. I did not tell his family. It can backfire and it certainly won't help the situation.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15